In this world there will hardly be a person who can claim that he/she is free from any kind of depression. Depression is part of our life but it depends on an individual as how to get rid of it. Depression is a mental state characterized by a pessimistic sense of inadequacy and a despondent lack of activity. It is an emotional disorder, and nothing to be ashamed of. But often, people who are in depression are suffering from pessimistic thoughts about themselves. These pessimistic thoughts lead to even further depression making a cycle that gets hard to stop. In depression a person loses his energy to cope with a challenge.
The following tips will come in handy in one place or another. I would suggest you to get a print out and display it in your room, office, and give it to your friends, or anywhere you spend much of your time.
Understand your liking. This can be done efficiently by trying the following exercise:
Write down 5 things you like about someone you commend (you can choose a friend, relative, colleague or celebrity), then one thing you do not like about them.
After that, pick someone you don’t like. Write down 5 things you dislike about them and one thing you like about them. Then turn your views to yourself. Write down one thing you don’t like about yourself. After that, write down 5 things you really like about yourself. The exercise will help train the mind to focus on what is good about you, not what is bad.
Burn a piece of paper. Write down on a piece of paper what you don’t like about yourself, then burn that piece of paper and watch it disappear. It is an effective and symbolic gesture.
Flowers which smell good. Scent followers, colorful lights and sunshine are good in reducing depression. Getting some fresh air can also help.
Change your eating habits. An occasional treat does not hurt you, but make sure that your diet is based on fresh vegetables and fruits. A balanced diet keeps the nutrients in your body normal, which ultimately helps in getting rid of depression.
Talk to someone trustworthy. It’s been observed in depression that talking to someone whom you trust, such as your close friend, a family member; even a counselor can help minimizing pressure on your mind. Talking or sharing with someone can release your tension to somehow. Try to avoid isolation.
Go outside. Even a little sunshine can help improve your mood. Try to go outside and have some fresh air, reminding yourself that there’s a world out there and you can participate in it as much as you can handle.
Practice Yoga and Meditation. Meditation is a kind of awareness of your mind, and yoga strengthens your body and spirit, which can bring happiness and health and helps getting rid of depression at the same time.
Dance keeps depression away. Find some time and place to dance alone for a few minutes each day on a melodious music or take some dancing classes. It will release your tension and will leave you feeling better about yourself.
Change the Way of Thinking. When you’re in tension you always think that you are all alone, no one cares about you, and your world is coming to an end. Maybe you are going through a horrible situation that is causing such feelings. It will change your mood if you change the way you think. Apparently it seems not so easy to do and it is certainly a long process. Start slowly, for example whenever you get pessimistic thoughts go out for a long walk and think something good about yourself or watch a funny movie. Remember it’s a long process so you won’t see results very soon. After awhile you will feel that you are no longer depressed and you have no depressing thoughts!
Exercise regularly. Half an hour to one hour exercise depending upon the capacity of the body is very essential. Any physical exercise can keep your mind and body strong and active. Doing exercise in an open and fresh air gives you extra benefit as we intake more oxygen. It helps you in reducing depression by maintaining the level of mood and emotional instincts. Physical exercise helps you in dealing with any stressful situation.
Get sufficient Sleep. Get a sufficient amount of sleep everyday and try to follow a regular schedule for your eating as mentioned above. Imbalance or disorder of sleep can further deteriorate the depression.
Avail small pleasures. It is important to avail small happiness in life. Don’t expect happinesses to come all the time. Try to set small and achievable goals in life and make efforts as much as you can to achieve the same. When you achieve these goals it will give u happiness thus reducing depression.
Play with children. Playing with children is a great activity which helps in reducing depression. Children are a source of happiness and playing with them can bring happiness in your life too.
Avoid alcohol and drugs. Using alcohol or drugs and smoking may give temporary relief but when a person gets addicted, it gives a life time trouble to get rid of such habits. So keep yourself away from such bad habits and make your life healthy and productive.
By following the above points you would be able to see positive change, making your life depression-free.

26 comments
Habibies says:
Oct 26, 2010
i always in Depression During my Job time
harsh says:
Jan 21, 2011
The description is really helpful.
The most common way to get under depression is when you accompolish a goal that is not achieved.
depression is something .. for which we have to fight on our own.its natural in in such a fast life.
slacker says:
Apr 29, 2011
Awesome blog, I’m going to spend more time reading about this subject
alexa says:
May 4, 2011
I am a teen none of these things have helped. I have tried sucide and failed wht do i do know??
sanjib says:
Oct 12, 2011
Alexa, the best u 2 come out of it is meditation.
Trust me .life is v v beautiful n wonderful .
I ‘m v mch sure u wl quickly overcome negetive
emotions. Keep smile.
Sanjib
j says:
Jan 5, 2012
trust me dont meditate. try not to thinkof the negative thoughts. find a new hobby and focus on that. pick up a new sport. focusing on my dog always makes me feels better; i just imagine him playing when i feel down sometimes
Jessica says:
May 17, 2012
Don’t do suicide. It will hurt the ones you love…..instead,just do what you like. For example,if you love video games,play video games. I know that sounds weird,but me friend tried it,and it worked.
farhan says:
May 4, 2011
@alexa please report it to the local police so that they can help you.
Cindy says:
Jun 14, 2011
This really helped a lot. I’ve been depressed for about a year and it’s really hard to get rid of. I’m seeing a psychologist and my days still haven’t had felt cleared up. But I’ll be sure too try this.
sumit says:
Jul 30, 2011
it’s very help full…;-)
Marco says:
Aug 30, 2011
Very helpful stuff. I wish to get to the same level of happiness I got one day. That day was just so perfect.
vivek says:
Sep 5, 2011
thanks for the tips .. I am always depressed.
vivek says:
Sep 5, 2011
alexa dont go for sucide.. Life is 4r short term. Use and and utilize it.
HJJ says:
Sep 7, 2011
Hey Alexa,
I came across ur words… Its really annoying.
Depression no doubt for any non achievable things , it will be there… Feel like we lost our life….
Everyone in this world mite have undergone, this type of feeling atleast ones….Worries should be destroyed first.
First, The one above, oour living saviour is there to take care of each thing beautifully,…
Committ your ways and be at peace…Let whatever may happen but still u believe on him most than before…..
Think this way, everyone undergoes this same problem at any stage or age of life…
God bless u immenselyyyy with peace and everlasting joy in ur heart!!!!!!!
alyssa says:
Oct 23, 2011
hi im alyssa… i’ve had depression since i was little, i’ve tried sucide many times but its never worked. i’ve been to doctors and all they did was give me some kinda new drug that doesnt work, i told one lady(that my mom made me go to) about my life and she didnt even know what to say to me.my dad killed himself when i was 8,i found him, my own mother didnt believe me thats not all(but im not going to get into that),and ever since then my life has been horrible…i’ve tried all kind of this things and more, i’ve even accepted christ into my heart but depression just seems to work its way back into my life…not to forget i’m only 15, i want help but no one will
Jessica says:
May 17, 2012
Alyssa,
I know how that feels.Trust me there’s someone who will help you.You just may not knotice it.If noone else will help,I will.I know you posted this last year,but if you still need help,I’ll help you.Please let me know what I can do to help if you still need help.
Shally says:
Oct 26, 2011
I think it is upto u to change ur thoughts
D3PR3$$!0N says:
Nov 7, 2011
the type of music u listen to also may help the situation..
Katie says:
Jan 2, 2012
I am going through Depression and i am only 12, is that bad? Also Your Description helped my friend, Thank you Now My friend is happy. I would help Myself But there’s really no point
Katie says:
Jan 2, 2012
I Have tried Suicide four times and i think it might be five soon if i don’t have the help that I need. I would tell my family about my depression but i know that they will worry and i don’t want that to happen. I have these suicidal thoughts in my head and Death, I have been Really down just because of depression!
So i really need your help! Please give me advice that will help me! I would tell someone else but i feel like that they have problems to sort out, like there own.
I want to live my life but i feel like i shouldn’t be here, not alive, I have been Bottling this up for ages, Every time when i am really really down i start cutting myself and making scars, I know that’s not going to solve anything but i just really don’t want to be here! This is the first time i have ever mentioned it! I was even sure that i wont be here 2012 because i planned my suicide, I even looked on the best methods to suicide i was that sure!
I might sound silly coming from a 12 year old but that’s how desperate i am just some i can be happy for once, I don’t know how i came into depression but now i have i hate it!
Please Send me an email back or reply back because i need help! :’(
Anna says:
Feb 23, 2012
sweetie when i was your age i want through the same thing. mine still didnt go away and i am now i6 years old. but it does get a bit better.i need someone to talk to about what has happened to me and stuff.id gladly talk to you and listen to you if youd like? add me on facebook. my name is Anna LetstheHeroin EatherSoul
Farhan says:
Jan 10, 2012
Please check your email.
Nandhini says:
Jan 10, 2012
I would suggest all of u to read “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne.It would surely help you to get your life back…Have a happy life.
Rizwan Rai says:
Feb 28, 2012
i think so,these tips are good but not fit for everyone.only islam is the way of getting rid from the depression,say prayer thank ALLAH,and see the people who have less oppertunity than u,
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tek says:
Mar 10, 2012
Depression and all other life problems is rooted to psychological issues. If a problem arises and you don’t know how to cope with it and feel depressed chances are u need to work things out in your mind and force your mind strength to get solutions instead of dwelling on a “problem”.